The Southampton Girl

It’s safe to say that no matter how long you have been with your Bae, this February 14th is going to be a little (lot) different to the usual.
No restaurants with balloons and glitter everywhere, no ‘Green Light Red Light’ parties in clubs we loved so much when we were 18 years old. But what if you …

"Everyone wants to be a lion, most people just never get the chance"
Today is the day I turn a whole Silver Anniversary, 25 years of being in this crazy world. Having to put up with people and having to have people put up with me too. Seems like a long time right? It sure as hell feels lik…

Being in relationships isn't something that comes easy to a lot of people, and I'm one of those people. I managed to have a long 2-year co dependancy a few years back but have never managed to cling to the fantasy of a dreamy relationship. Mostly dating what you would call 'fuckboys'…

Since speaking out about my anxiety on Instagram, I have had so much support from strangers, family and friends about everything and it has given me some of my confidence back. Now that people know, they won't think I'm such a freak if I suddenly need to sit down right? It also meant I gath…

In this day and age of technology, photography and social media it's very hard to tell the difference between what is real life and what is just for show. Some things can look amazing in a photo but secretly everything is dull and boring. Relationships, friendships, whole lifestyles being fabri…

This is most definitely a girl power, I'm going to talk about my feelings kind of post. So if that's not your thing I strongly suggest you turn away now. But when little things happen (or big things) I used to write them down in a notebook and they would be lost forever, but seeing as I hav…

“The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost.”— Gilbert K. Chesterton

Love.
It's a funny thing. I'm pretty sure you all know what day it is, whether we like it or not, it comes around every year. Reminding us of those we love, those we've lost in one way or another and thin…

Any one who knows me will know that I really do not enjoy Valentines Day at all. It is the complete opposite of ever way I like to be or already am. Forced love and affection and appreciation in the way of cards and tacky gifts, what about the other 364 days where all this is forgotten about?

In this generation and world of technology and whimsical decisions, it's particularly difficult to date. Men are also in my opinion more shy than how ever many years ago, because us women aren't afraid to shout 'go away you ugly mug' and that might have backfired on us to a global …